Why Members Don’t Invite Others
Monday, December 29th, 2008I thoroughly enjoyed reading Church Marketing 101 by Richard Reisling. This book is a rendering of some of the important steps that small churches can implement to ensure growth and increase retention rates. Reisling suggests that there are basically three factors in church growth:
- Lateral/denominational – these are Christians from other congregations.
- Vertical/relationships – these are persons invited by members and are transformed by the Christian experience.
- Curbside – these are persons who chose to visit without a personal invitation.
According to Reisling, the most sustainable factor in growth is the vertical which involves members inviting new people. However, he indicates that most members don’t invite others because they have not come to terms with six questions that are germane. I share these with you:
- Will my friend feel welcomed? (hospitable)
- Will my friend fit in? (comfortable)
- Can I feel confident that I know how the service will turn out? (consistent)
- Will my friend get something out of the experience? (relevant)
- Will my friend understand it? (understandable)
- Will anything that could seem strange be explained through Scripture? (sensitive)
My guess is that these questions reveal some honest questions that could be the talking points for a small group concerned about personal evangelism.
What do you think?