What Should I Wear to Church?
Posted by NormanMar 4
I had posted the following story on my Facebook account and since it was generating some discussion, I thought I would post it here. Please feel free to comment.
One Sunday morning an old cowboy entered a church just before services were to begin. Although the old man and his clothes were spotlessly clean, he wore jeans, a denim shirt and boots that were very worn and ragged. In his hand he carried a worn out old hat and an equally worn out Bible.
The church he entered was in a very upscale and exclusive part of the city. It was the largest and most beautiful church the old cowboy had ever seen. The people of the congregation were all dressed with expensive clothes and accessories.
As the cowboy took a seat, the others moved away from him. No one greeted, spoke to, or welcomed him. They were all appalled at his appearance and did not attempt to hide it.
As the old cowboy was leaving the church, the preacher approached him and asked the cowboy to do him a favor. “Before you come back in here again, have a talk with God and ask him what he thinks would be appropriate attire for worship.” The old cowboy assured the preacher he would.
The next Sunday, he showed back up for the services wearing the same ragged jeans, shirt, boots, and hat. Once again he was completely shunned and ignored. The preacher approached the man and said, “I thought I asked you to speak to God before you came back to our church.”
“I did,” replied the old cowboy.
“If you spoke to God, what did he tell you the proper attire should be for worshiping in here?” asked the preacher.
“Well, sir, God told me that He didn’t have a clue what I should wear. He said He’d never been in here before.”
It is clear that judging someone by what they wear is wrong. There could be a hundred reasons why someone dresses the way they do.
Having said that, it doesn’t mean that it what people wear doesn’t matter. The point is, we can’t judge someone by what they wear, at least not if it’s simply a matter of “style” or “quality”.
True, we don’t want to be stiff-necked, but is going to church the same thing as going to the beach? In other words, shouldn’t I show due regard to where I am going and dress accordingly? Can we take a too casual approach to our worship of God? If so, why?
What do you think?
2 comments
Comment by Felicia Castro on May 7, 2010 at 6:04 am
This is a story that i had been looking for for some time now. I just love how the cowboy doesn’t allow someone else’s opinion of him stop him from coming back to the house of the Lord. My comment is simple. We should always come before our Lord presentable. The church that I attend has more of a casual setting. Some may wear suits and ties,dresses and panty hoes we may even wear jeans on certain sundays but our goal is to always be decent and respectful with our attire. But, nevertheless our hearts should always be right before God, even if our attire is a little off at time. Gotta love this story so funny but so real.
God Bless
Felicia Castro
Comment by Ragaa K. on June 8, 2010 at 7:39 am
Wow this story is really interesting. I remember when I used to be one of those people, but when I accepted God as my personal savior, I realized that it doesn’t matter what we wear because it’s our faith that God cares about.